So i accidentally enabled the xbox controller setting, and pressing esc doesnt do anything. also, i think the console is disabled.

Can you show us where you are trying to change the xbox 360 settings?

Enable the console by going to main menu > settings > Game Options. when you click game options nothing will happen but your console will be enabled. Just press " `/~ " / Below your esc key.
This is just a known bug throughout all of ugx mods.

Tell us what ugx mod you are using? 1.1.1 or 1.1.0?

i cant use the keyboard because, well, the xbox controller setting is ON. the problem is i cant disable it because my controller wont connect (probably because i dont have a receiver XD). i searched the forums and they said press esc, but it isnt working.

Go to your world at war root directory > mods > your mapname, you should see a file called DisablexBoxController

You should see this

seta ugx_client_xbox "No"
seta cl_bypassMouseInput 0

copy what I have.

didnt work, tried everything
it seems to also happen on other ugx 1.1 maps as well. i dont think the problem is in the map files of a specific map

Ok I think I solved the problem  .  I got a fresh CoDWaW folder from a backup i made when i first downloaded the game. It no longer thinks I'm using a controller.
thanks for the help anyway